Sunday, June 15, 2008

Being Happy Without Being Perfect

The other day, Evan and I walked to the library in the evening. The Salem Public Library is about a mile or so away from our house and at least part of the walk is pretty.

Once we arrived at the library, we perused the round tables which greet you at the door with all of the most interesting "must-reads." Evan found some books on green remodeling and the like, while I found a few different books of interest. However, upon seeing this book, I picked it up, and I didn't even have to flip through it to know I'd be leaving the library with it. It was called, Be Happy Without Being Perfect. I'm sure if you're reading my blog you know this kind of thing is a constant struggle for me. Not that I'm a perfectionist in every realm of life, because I'm not. In fact, reading this book has reminded me of this fact. However, when it comes to my body, my internal workings, and work, I am definitely pretty perfectionistic.

Evan asked me last night how I have been enjoying the book and I told him it's a 99 out of 100. It has been amazing to read, and I can think of many women friends (it's entirely about and for women) who would enjoy it too. Although I'd love to hear the "Christ-perspective" offered in the book, it's a book offering a lot of grace and messiness to those of us who shun mess, aka "life." I could go on and on about how appropriate and helpful it's already been. Needless to say, if you're a woman, get it from the library (or buy it) and read it. I'm sure if you're not a perfectionist in at least one of the areas she discusses, you know many women who are. If you're a man, read it, because it will help you to understand women, particularly those in our society, much better. Enjoy!